Triumph of Hope

Role of Media in Pakistan

Awareness Initiator
Perception changer
Real image calculator
Help in rethinking mindset
Economic boomer
Emphasizing the masses
Resolving issues
Informer
Supported the neglected individual

     With the information age the trends changed, the way of thinking of people will Borden the horizon, and that arrival is called as watchdog, and it is no other than Media.The role of media in Pakistan acts like a catalyst in a nation's progress.In today's world of changing phenomenon, communication with the world is very necessarily essential for our stand on any issue. 

     If we are not aware of the facts then its difficult for us to tell our version to the world , that knowledge is provided to us by the medium of media, and that initiator is transforming ourselves and equipped our minds with the calculated information.If our perception did not changed then we are not going to move towards discussing about the real problems and remove the illusion, as well as make us clear through the transforming weapon of media to changing the perception.Media is actually the real image calculator which gives us the actual readings, that what is happening around with the actual facts and the methodology of  research about the happenings, which is making us more clear and elaborated in thinking beyond the limits.It is making us to rethink the mind set of the people by educating the people and give us a vision of hope, in this way the economic situation will further enhanced because it is directly hitting the economy by providing and filling the gaps of unemployment, media is acting like a barometer in any country's prosperity.It is supporting the masses by raising the voices of the deprived as well as the neglected society problems, and making it public to make the leaders even thing positive and take actions in resolving the issues, making people feel that there is some one  supporting them. Media is a great informer and with in the blink of eye you see the happenings in the world, know about the changing trends and thinking about the unthinking activity.

Communication Gap

If you understand your family you are a successful individual.

Communication in today's time frame is very important factor which must not be neglected. In our culture our people have a vast gap of communication barrier with the paternal and maternal being of an individual, which do have a complicated life cycle, and resulted in many bad out come in one life. Communication clear the misconceptions in the minds and built up the confidence and energize oneself.

In this fast pace world we have not enough time to be spend with the family and discuss the issues relating the life and towards the future of the sons and daughters. While this communication gap further becomes strong then it is really danger because the thinking capacity also changes with the time and decisions made sometimes will not be helpful and in this way the distance between the family will bro-den and this factors s h e t t e r s the life, so please do not keep distance what ever the schedule of your working is give time to the family , discuss the matters, share the ideas, listen to them ,what they like , what they want, what they feel, they need the counselling, help because they need you in time and it is your utmost duty, and must be the priority, to look into the matters, always remember Stephen covey's 90/10 principle in your life.

Stephen covey's Example

Let's use an example. You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened. What happens next will be determined by how you react. You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit.

After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. 

You look forward to coming home. When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter. Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have a bad day? 
A) Did the coffee cause it? 
B) Did your daughter cause it? 
C) Did the policeman cause it? 
D) Did you cause it? 

The answer is "D". You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. 

Here is what could have and should have happened. Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its ok honey, you just need to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having. 

Notice the difference? Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different. Why? Because of how you REACTED. You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

The bottom line of the example is 90 percent we have to blame our self and 10 will be blame for the environment, and if you control your self than you are the genius I guess. The above example is the exercise for calmness and control on the emotions. 

It is not so that if you are fulfilling the needs and wants of the family that is only thing you are entitled with but the most important and lasting notion is the communication with them and bring them under your confidence that they will share every thing with you, here I am not asking the Dads but the Moms too because in this era of change there are many working women around who are not putting their efforts in shortens the communication barriers among the sons and the daughters. For the happy life there must be a happy conversation , communication between the families.  

Actions Speaks

Inventing a new exercise

Day before yesterday, I started an exercise which really gives me a great pleasure, when I ended it up in relaxing my muscles . This is a new chapter which I have invented coincidentally in my life, which I am going to share with you.This exercise do not need any weight lifting instruments but your enthusiastic and emotional behavior as well as the interest. I started with cricket, squash, foot ball, tennis, badminton, table tennis, golf, rowing, swimming, through ball, volley ball, kabadi, karate, racing, jumping, cycling, and the physical training which we normally aware of as well as performed in our school days.  

I know that you all are thinking that how come any individual is capable of doing all these games at one time. Remember there is a saying " Actions speaks louder then words", you have to perform the actions of all these games, by this way whole body's exercise will be done, the energy will emerge in your facial expressions I bet.Exercise in today's era is a very important part of life and should be necessarily adopted in our routine.